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Today we’re on to part 8 of our series on the most common “cognitive distortions,” or thinking errors. This is the second-to-last installment before we wrap up this series. Cognitive distortion #8 is… “Should” statements What it is: At its core, the “should statements” cognitive distortion revolves around rigid expectations and self-imposed standards we place […]

Career, Personal Growth

A Case of the “Shoulds”

Today we’re on to part 7 of our series on the most common “cognitive distortions,” or thinking errors. Cognitive distortion #7 is… Personalization What it is: Personalization is a cognitive distortion that involves taking things personally, even when they have nothing to do with you. It assumes that everything others say or do is a […]

Personal Growth

Personalization

Today we’re on to the next part of our series on the most common “cognitive distortions,” or thinking errors. I’m bundling two distortions together this time, because they’re opposite sides of the same coin: The “fallacy of change” and the “fallacy of control.” What they are: The fallacy of change involves the belief that external circumstances or […]

Personal Growth

Fallacies of Change and Internal Control

Today we’re on to part 4 of our series on the most common “cognitive distortions,” or thinking errors. Cognitive distortion #4 is… All-or-nothing thinking What it is: All-or-nothing thinking, also known as black-and-white thinking, involves seeing things in extremes with no middle ground. This type of thinking can lead to rigid and inflexible beliefs and […]

Personal Growth

All-or-Nothing Thinking

Today we’re on to part 3 of our series on the most common “cognitive distortions,” or thinking errors. Cognitive distortion #3 is… Magical thinking.. What it is: Overall, “magical thinking” refers to attempts to control external outcomes via thoughts or rituals that clearly don’t have the power to actually affect the outcome. Sounds silly, but […]

Personal Growth

Magical Thinking